You're how OLD?

 In today's world, women of all ages are experimenting with style.  Teenage girls are trying to look "older, " while those of us over thirty are striving to hold on to our "youth."  In many cases I would have a hard time guessing anyones' true age.  Is it just me, or are high school girls developing way faster then I remember?  When I was in high school a sport bra was my best friend and heels were reserved only for prom.  So in a society filled with girls/women creating the illusion that we are ALL in our twenties, where does our own personal style fit in?





Teens - For those of you who are still raging with hormones, this is a great time to experiment with style.  I'm going to cut you some slack because you will, no doubt, look back at yourself in 10 years and laugh.  (And you should!)  I went through many "fads" in high school.  I would wear pajama bottoms with a huge t-shirt during the grunge days.....man was I cool.  :)  Maybe you're shy but want to express yourself through style?  Just keep in mind before walking out the door in a mini-skirt, tube top and platform heels that the choices you make now CAN effect you the rest of your life.  Be a TEEN, don't try to be a 20 year old!  Wear skinny jeans, funky nail color, try out make-up, cute flats, bright jackets, even an occasional crazy hairstyle,  just make sure whatever you wear or do is something that you WILL be able to laugh at in 10 years and not cry over.  :)




In your 20's - Hopefully by now you've eliminated certain items from your wardrobe.  Your experimenting in the teen years helped you figure out that wearing pajama bottoms and an over sized t-shirt isn't exactly "making the grade."  Maybe your in college, a trade school, interning or starting a career, take this opportunity to look your best.  It's still ok to be "trendy" in your twenties.  Spend a little extra on those perfect jeans, try different style hats and funky jewelry.  I would even go as far to say try the latest trends you see celebrities wearing (or a version of them).  You are young and free so dress like it!





In your 30's -  At the ripe age of thirty, some say there is no looking back.  But I say....you had better look back and learn what you liked and disliked about your style in your twenties.  Some of you may say, "my style has remained the same throughout all the years"  and I would be lying if I told you I think that's good thing.  Don't tell me.....you wear neutral colored shirts daily, your jeans are Kirkland brand from Costco and doc martins are the only thing worn on your feet, with the exception of Birkenstocks in the summer.  I can tell you right now, without looking at you I might think you're 75 years old.  And just to make sure I offend us all equally, I can honestly say I might fall into the opposing group.  I change my style too often, try trends I'm surely to old for and can look back at pics from last year and laugh at some of my outfits. An example, my husband grew up on the beach and loves the surfer girl look, so I find myself buying Roxy, Hurley, Volcom, Billabong.....do you see a pattern here?  All these brands are meant for girls in their teens or early twenties. So whether your stuck in your high school grunge or quickly changing with each and every trend, we are all searching to find the perfect balance!  My best advice would be keep your wardrobe classy.  You should have jeans that fit well, white tee's without stains, black tee's, neutral tanks for underneath sweaters, black dress pants, a black skirt, black dress, flats of any color, a neutral heel, a pea coat, scarves, boots (brown and black), sweaters or cardigans.  You may think I just named off a bunch of clothes fit for a librarian but the point is to take a nice neutral and pop it with you own personal style. 



In your 40's & over -   You are established, your kids tend to be a little older or at least in grade school.  Maybe you have a bit more money to spend on yourself!  Hooray!  This is truly when the classics's really set you aside as a beauty icon.  People look up to you, and hopefully you aren't trying to look 22 anymore.  You know that with age comes wisdom and let's hope that if I checked your closet I would figure out your sense of style.  I think the rules apply the same way they would to a 30 year old.  Use your classic staples from your wardrobe and work from there to make your own personal style to come out.  Don't be afraid to let yourself standout!  My beautiful Mom (I won't say her age) has always held a special place in her heart for leopard print.  If you know her at all, this might make you laugh because she really doesn't strike you as someone who would love such a wild concept.  Over the years we've bought her numerous leopard print items ranging from pj's, shirts, purses, socks....you name it.  Though I probably won't tell anyone to go out and spend all your money on full leopard print outfits, I think a little wild print here or there is perfect.  My Mom is an example of how you can still bring your fun personality out, no matter your age.  (And no she's not that old).  :) 


No matter which category you fit in, be true to yourself.  Own your style, maybe you don't want to give up your Kirkland brand jeans and doc martin's....ok then at least go out and buy a new pair! :)  Fill your closet with what makes you, YOU and if you can walk out the door everyday feeling like the best version of yourself , then no one (not even a lame blogger with the nickname MomJeans) can stand in your way! Go get um "tiger".....(or should I say "leopard"...that was for you Mom)!